According to a survey conducted by Swedish sex toy manufacturer Lelo, 80 percent of women said they would perform a prostate massage on their partner, if asked. The same survey found that 71% of straight men have tried — or would try — a prostate massager. With numbers like these, it’s hard to imagine how prostate play hasn’t yet entered into more discussions surrounding heterosexual sex. Of course, things dubbed taboo rarely make it into the mainstream.

Maybe it’s time to erase the stigma around heterosexual prostate massage