Professional anti-feminist (and Phyllis Schlafly relative) Suzanne Venker might have an easier time doing her job were she to learn what feminism is. On Wednesday, the right-wing activist joined Iowa conservative radio host Steve Deace on his program to discussher recent Fox News editorial on the disappearance of husbands (spoiler alert: it’s women’s fault men won’t marry them), as well as an internal inconsistency Venker sees in the feminist movement: It just doesn’t make any sense that feminists want to be equal to men when they hate men so much!

It’s quite the conundrum!